Introducing our garden

We had a busy outdoor weekend, which is good because people keep telling me this nice weather is our summer!.

Our new garden

I’ve shared pictures of some of the interesting features in our new house and asked for your input into what we should do with the dining room, but the only information I’ve shared about the garden is one picture in my February Project Life layouts. This is partly due to the wet weather, but also because I’m not a gardener. The garden is approximately twenty times bigger than our old one, so when we discussed buying the house I made it clear it would be ED’s responsibility. I love the space, but don’t know what to do, how to do it and to be honest generally don’t even think about it.

Anyway here is our back garden … yes the previous owners chose to have a bonfire in the middle of the lawn. That was a high priority to sort because it appears they burnt anything so there were bits of glass and metal in the soil; but now it is the best bit of grass in the garden.

Back garden with bonfire on the lawn

Arrival of the ‘shed’

The key task for the weekend was to build the Dunster House climbing frame; or the new shed as we told B. We had read it might take four days to assemble and didn’t want to be questioned all weekend about when would it be ready. Although this didn’t actually stop the questions because a new shed was very exciting and both kids wanted to be involved.

Helping to build the climbing frame

Gardening

Fortunately a distraction arrived for B in the form of a gardening kit and she insisted we use it straight away. This was the perfect reason to tackle one of the over grown raised beds on the patio. In the long term we will probably remove these, particularly as two of them are bridging the damp proof course, but in the short term they are perfect for children’s gardening.

Digging in the soil was lots of fun. B got the concept of weeding, but M is currently working through a transporting phase so he wanted to move the soil into the watering can, the gardening bag, a toy tea cupm or the weeds from wheelbarrow to the middle of the lawn. Unfortunately I was soon left to finish the weeding on my own, but B returned for the seed planting and watering; they were definitely her favourite activities.

Children gardening

Creatures

By disturbing their home in the weeds we saw lots of creatures in the flower bed. We found worms, wood lice, beetles, centipedes, woodlice, a caterpillar and a slug. In the rest of the garden M was fascinated by a frog and the red kites (he’ll actually do the sign for bird when he sees them).

Results

After two days we have a climbing frame. Thankfully ED and my father in law are both very practical and were able to interpret the pile of instructions into a securely built structure. At 18 months, I was concerned M may be too young to climb up the ladder, but there was really no need.

Reactions to the climbing frame

Plus we have an almost emptied flower bed. The lemon balm took me almost the whole of Sunday as it was very securely rooted, but we now have empty space and are ready to go and buy more seeds.

This post is an entry for BritMums’ #KidsGrowWild Challenge, you can find out more here. I was sent the gardening kit free of charge, but was not paid for this post. All the opinions are entirely my own.

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6 year blogging review

I started this year wanting to return to my blog and set myself the realistic resolution of writing one post a month.  Okay, I missed March because we didn’t have the internet for eight weeks, but since then my posting has increased and I appear to be settling into the routine of posting twice a week. So I think I can say I’m back. However, I’m curious about what has happened here during the last six years.

Previous reviews

I have been inconsistent with my blogging and I’ve looked at this on a couple of occasions. In February 2010 I realised  I was an inefficient blogger and I took a long time to do things, or just didn’t do them, and I’d also been distracted by the idea of making money from my blog. In January 2011 I was considering stopping my blog and looked at a variety of trends such as posting frequency. I again mentioned my inefficiencies.

2013 review

Posting trend

In the last 6 years (and two months) I’ve published 238 posts working out at 38 a year.

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Looking at the graph of my posting frequency make me think maybe I’ve been a bit premature in my “I’m back” statement! There is no certainty in that upwards trend at the moment and could in fact just be a blip like in August 2012, although I hope not. As I said in the 2011 review I reduced the number of posts I was writing after having my daughter in 2008. I feel this is understandable, but I’ve seen a lot of ‘mummy’ bloggers who are able to write frequently and would love to know their tips.

Posting categories

It appears I’m not very focussed in my blogging topics because I’ve written in 22 different categories. Interesting I don’t think I would have picked most of these to be my most popular.

  1. organisation
  2. blog
  3. fiction reviews
  4. goals
  5. writing

Most read posts

I continue to be disappointed by my most viewed posts because I wrote them so long ago; have I passed my blogging peak? I’ve used Google Analytics to produce this list and I assume it differs from the list in my blog theme because Analytics starts from the very beginning.

  1. Ask advice: how to label keyboard keys (2007)
  2. 15 different types of journals to keep (2007)
  3. 13 tips to successful hot desking (2007)
  4. Day planner download files (2007)
  5. How I successfully plan my day (2007)

Number of visitors

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This is an interesting graph, because the number of visits to my site increased in 2011 and 2012 started to decrease in 2013; it appears to show no connections to the number of new posts.

Most popular search terms

Search engines are the most common method people find my site and I find it very interesting looking at the search terms used. I have to admit that I don’t know how some of them end up on my site. The most frequently used are

  1. Types of journals
  2. Keyboard keys
  3. hot desking
  4. different types of journals
  5. types of journals

Subscribers

Reading my site through subscription is also popular and Feedburner says I’ve just reach 200 subscribers for the first time since January 2011. My highest number was 260 in January 2008.

Top referring sites

These are the next five sites that sent the most traffic my way. These are mostly links from comments I’ve left in forums or on blogs.

  1. Mark Forster
  2. Daily PlanIt
  3. Corrie Haffly
  4. HDBizBlog
  5. David Co

Number of comments

On this site, I’ve approved 563 comments and Akismet has identified 2214 as spam. I suggested in 2011 the number of comments is related to the number of new posts and this still appears to be reasonable because I’ve recently increased my posts and started to receive comments again. Thank you. Not only is it nice to know you are reading what I write, but I enjoy learning from you, so for example the next time I’m near Sainsbury’s I’m going to look at their jeans.

Most commented posts

I love seeing I’ve got 20 comments on several of my posts, however like my most read posts, it is disappointing they are all so old. What happened to my posts after I had children?

  1. Why should you keep a personal journal – 23 (2007)
  2. How I successfully plan my day – 21 (2007)
  3. Problems with the non globalisation of organisation – 21 (2007)
  4. Ask advice: how to label keyboard keys – 20 (2007)
  5. Ask advice: new baby – what do we need to buy, make or know – 19 (2008)

Top commentators

What is better than receiving a comment? Receiving more than one comment from the same person and starting to build a relationship. Here are the top 5 commentators from the last six years; thank you

  1. Feli
  2. Gary
  3. @5tephen
  4. Megan @ Disorder2Order
  5. Benjamin

What next?

I am feeling motivated about my blog at the moment. I think this partly down to recently joining some networks,  connecting with people and realising blogging isn’t the solitary activity I’ve often thought. I’m so motivated that I feel up to the challenge of getting some new posts in to my stats and knocking down the ones from 2007.

The key thing that stands to me is I will benefit from improving my blogging efficiency. Therefore this year I intend to finish reading Blogwise; how to do more with less by Darren Rowse, a blogger I’ve followed for many years.

What have you learnt from doing a review of your blog? Do you have any tips on how I can develop my blog further this year? How do you use blog networks? What are your efficiency tips?

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Accepting my handbag is now like my mother’s

When I was growing up my Mum’s handbag had a reputation for being full and containing some strange items such as a metal key to tighten tennis nets. For many years I wasn’t a fan of handbags and preferred to use pockets. However, over the weekend when I was packing items to go to the beach I realised having children has had a big impact on what I carry. So as I used to enjoy the Lifehacker What’s in your backpack posts, I thought I’d share the contents of my handbag.

My Mummy handbag

I’ve been on leave today, so my handbag is still the changing bag from the weekend. After my daughter was born, I couldn’t find any changing bags I liked so I bought this David Jones handbag with two main compartments, one for the changing items and one for my items.

Contents of my Mummy handbag

 Working clockwise, the contents of my bag are:

  1. Purse (estimated value £30), containing £10 (as well as usual cards)
  2. Google Nexus 7 (est £200)
  3. Sunglasses (est £20)
  4. Nixon P300 camera (est  £200) I carry it for my Project 52
  5. HTC One X (est £250)
  6. Creative Zen mp3 player (est £20, but I don’t want to think about replacing it as last time I looked there wasn’t another play that met my requirements). It is in the bag so we could listen to audio books in the car
  7. Plaster
  8. Tissues
  9. Deodrant
  10. Suncream
  11. Lipsils
  12. Origins lipgloss (est £9)
  13. Estee Launder lipsticks (est £20 each)
  14. Seam ripper (interesting item to be in there)
  15. Crayons
  16. 20 pence piece, I assume this is locker money and should be in the swimming bag
  17. Paracetamol
  18. Foldable spoon, we must have got this free with something and I thought it would be useful to keep in the bag, but then forgot about it
  19. Hair bobble
  20. Small box of raisins, similar to 18. Most of the contents were across the bottom of the bag
  21. Jenga bricks, taken by mistake from our weekend away. We used them to entertain the kids in a restaurant
  22. Medical box containing Calpol, Bonjela, Anbesol and teething powder
  23. Boxes containing nappy bags and nappy wipes
  24. Nappies
  25. Waterproof bag to put dirty nappies in if there are no bins close
  26. David Jones bag (est £30)

This is  a value of at least £800, excluding my car and house keys which would be in there if I was out of the house.

My other handbag

For completeness here is the handbag I’ll use tomorrow when I go to work. I’ll take several items out of the changing bag and add them to the current contents, e.g. phone, purse, tablet.

Contents of my handbag

Working clockwise, the contents of my bag are:

  1. Work phone HTC Desire S (estimated value £100)
  2. Tic Tacs
  3. Tic Tac box containing hair grips
  4. Bobble
  5. Paracetamol
  6. Lipsil
  7. Pen, pencil and ruler, these should be in my work laptop bag
  8. Leather pen holder containing Cross fountain pen, ballpoint pen and pencil (est £180)
  9. Nail file
  10. Folding brush and comb my husband was given on a flight
  11. Hand cream
  12. Spot gel
  13. Tissue holder I made, containing tissues
  14. David Jones handbag (est £30)
  15. Retractable ear phones (est £20), I use these with my mp3 player to listen to music at work
  16. Red bag containing:
  17. An old business card (only correct detail was my name)
  18. Plasters
  19. Little Clinique lip gloss
  20. Powder brush
  21. Powder compact originally belonged to my Granny (est £150)

That is at least another £480 I carry with me on a regular basis, and doesn’t include my Sony ebook reader that I frequently carry with me and is about another £100.

Confession

The contents weren’t quite as neat as I’ve shown. I also found an empty packet of buttons, an old packing list, a page torn out of a magazine annotated with a list of dates and several screwed up tissues, although I believe they were clean.

Final thoughts

I bought both of these bags on the same day (as well as the purse) when I went to buy some socks! That was in 2009 and they are showing how much I’ve used them, for example you can see where I fastened the handles of the changing bag to the push chair. Since planning this post on Sunday, I’ve noticed MoneySupermarket are running a competition called ‘What’s in your handbag‘ to highlight the value of the items we carry. The first prize is a Mulberry handbag, which would be a lovely replacement, although I think I would be a little anxious having a handbag that was worth as much as my contents!

Have you emptied your handbag recently? What are the key items you carry?

 

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January 2013 photo moments

As well as producing a year book of Project 52 layouts I want one collating my layouts of individual moments.  As I usually include journalling and more photographs these layouts tell a fuller story than one picture a day. I particularly like the pages at the end of the month showing the random pictures that might otherwise be forgotten. I’m hoping 2013 is the first year I complete the year, although as I’ve just finished January I’ve got a bit of catching up to do.

I’ve arranged the layouts as they will appear in the book (notice my second ever double page spread) a few of the photographs also appear in the January Project 52 pages.  I’m a member at ScrapGirls so several of the layouts were the result of some of their forum challenges (shown in italics), plus the majority of my supplies are from there. I enjoy taking part in the challenges because it gives me a deadline and often results in a different style of layout.

January 2013 moments in scrap pages

January 2013 moments in scrap pages

  1. B trying our her first bike (Supplies ScrapGirls, Peppermint Creative, SpeedScraps)
  2. B with Primrose the snake (Supplies ScrapGirls)
  3. B and M at the park (Supplies ScrapGirls)
  4. Cinderella pantomime (Supplies ScrapGirls)
  5. Snow (Supplies ScrapGirls)
  6. Painting the bath (Supplies ScrapGirls, Peppermint Creative,  RPENN)
  7. Random shots of B (Supplies ScrapGirls, Peppermint Creative)
  8. Random shots of B and M (Supplies ScrapGirls, Word Art World)
  9. Random shots of M (Supplies ScrapGirls)

What were your key moments from January? How do you share your photographs?

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Learning the art of shopping for jeans

Blue jeans are the most beautiful things since the gondola.

Diana Vreeland

I’m not the best clothes shopper. I find shopping exhausting and depressing, because I find it difficult to see through the mass of clothes that aren’t suitable for me. I’ve got better in recent years as I’ve learnt more about the colours and style of clothes that suit me; but there are still so many changing rooms to face…

However, there are times when shopping has to be done; and this time it was an urgent need for replacement jeans

My old jeans

It is great that I got back into my pre-pregnancy jeans fairly quickly after having Matthew. But I knew they were not great for me because the low waist highlighted my mummy tummy and they were too short; however, they were comfortable and  I liked the embroidery. Plus I already owned them, so I wore them until I got holes in the seams. Okay I admit I kept wearing them for quite a while after noticing the holes.

Learning to shop

After having a style consultation and reading books such as Colour me confident and Trinny and Susannah, I know I want bootleg jeans to balance my hips. I thought the shape was all I need to know, but thanks to Pinterest I discovered there are many more things to consider when finding the perfect pair of jeans. The two posts I found really informative are both on Grasping for objectivity in my subjective life (Post 1 On the Proper Fitting of Jeans, Post 2 Mom Jeans and the Dreaded “Long Butt”).

I’d never thought about the back pockets before, but it appears they are key; their size, position and decoration. Plus the colour of the stitching and the colour changes in the denim material.

Implementing my learning

There were so many points to remember that I started by browsing online so I could refer backs to the blog posts. This narrowed down the shops to visit and helped me stay focused because I was not going home until I bought a new pair of jeans (or the shops shut).

I tried on jeans in four shops and found it much quicker to decide if they were for me by asking myself a few questions:

  • Is my tummy coming over the waist band?
  • Can I move comfortably?
  • Is the hem down to my shoes?
  • Do the pockets start on my bottom?
  • Do they finish below the curve?

The purchased jeans

The pair I bought are GAP Perfect Boot Jeans.  I recognise they are not perfect because I’d like the pockets to be a bit smaller and lower, but a big improvement on my old pair; not bad for two hours of shopping.

Comparison of jeans

 

The key thing I’ve learnt is to check my rear view in the mirror more often!

How do you approach your shopping trips? Have you recently learnt any tips that help you buy more appropriate clothes?

 

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Keeping on top of repeating tasks at home

Repeating tasks are the key to achievement; either by making sure things run smoothly or by encouraging the little and often approach to completion.

It is over five years since I had the revelation of keeping my repeating tasks separate to my other tasks. Since then I’ve tried a variety of approaches, the most successful being a tickler file in Evernote. It was great being able to access it anywhere on any device.

That was until we moved house and we had no internet for two months. All of a sudden I couldn’t sync and each device had a different list so I started carrying my list on paper.

I’ve gone back to Evernote for my main task list (using Mark Forster’s Final Version method if you are interested), and I’ve bought a small (very cheap) week-to-view diary specifically for my repeating tasks, and after five weeks I’m finding it very successful.

Small diary for repeating tasks

What is a repeating task

I have many different repeating tasks, chores such as vacuuming; things that happen on a regular basis such as reading magazine subscriptions, downloading photographs from my camera; and tasks that help me achieve my resolutions such as writing blog posts, scrap page layouts. Obviously some are more enjoyable than others, but each repeat moves me closer to where I want to be.

Recording repeating tasks

My method is very simple. But I’ve learnt the hardest part is the correct mental approach; many times I’ve thought because a repeating task is on my list it would happen all on its own! I’m now being much stricter with myself to spend at least a few minutes on each task, because it is the only way I will get change (I know, obvious really). I’m also looking at my list in weekly chunks so I don’t worry if I don’t work on all the tasks each day, but I aim to work on all of them within the week.

  • Each task is written on the day it is due, followed by O to show it is a repeating task and the repeating period e.g. 3d for 3 days, 1m for 1 month
  • after working on a task I cross it off and rewrite it the appropriate number of days in the future
  • Each day I prioritise the tasks written on that day and work backwards completing any remaining tasks from the previous days; only then do I look at tasks on the my normal task list
  • On Sunday nights I rewrite any unfinished tasks from the week on to the next Monday so I don’t need to look over several pages
  • I use the Notes space to record any tasks I think of when I don’t have access to Evernote and I transfer them later

Week of repeating tasks

This is a small list compared to what I previously had in Evernote; that list was so long it was not possible for me to keep up to date and was not motivating to see a screen of tasks I should have completed. I declared a backlog on my tasks and I’m now working towards a list where there is a good chance I’ll complete it within the week. This means I don’t have all my repeating tasks included yet and explains why the list looks a bit strange, for example I’m dusting but not vacuuming! But I’m getting quicker with the tasks and gradually including more.

And yes, I need to have Pinterest as a repeating task, otherwise I’d be on there every day!

How do you deal with repeating tasks? Do you prefer to use a paper or electronic method?

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Kitchen dining room or lounge dining room?

We’re stuck on the remodelling of our new house. We’ve agreed we don’t want a separate dining room, but can’t decide what to do with the space; make a kitchen dining room or a lounge dining room.

Kitchen dining rooms are in favour

Two architects have seen the house and they both suggested making a kitchen dining room, and almost all the comments I’ve read in forums have recommended a kitchen dining room. In fact in our old house we changed the lounge dining room into a kitchen breakfast room (use the sink for reference as it stayed in the same place). I don’t know how we would have managed weaning with the small kitchen.

Photographs copyright Jones Robinson

Photographs copyright Jones Robinson

But, I’m not sure the answer is that simple in our new house.

Space for both?

We will be making our new kitchen bigger by extending into the downstairs bathroom. This will give us  a large front to back kitchen big enough for a table and hopefully a sofa. We will keep the existing lounge which is separated from the kitchen by the dining room (accessible from both but not direct from the entrance hall). Which way should it go?

Possible remodelled layout

Possible remodelled layout

The larger kitchen will be used most days for eating as a family, but we also want an area to have larger formal dining, such as birthdays and Christmas, and this could be achieved by knocking the dining room into either the lounge or the kitchen. We had originally thought of having a lounge dining room, but as there seems to be a strong view for kitchen dining rooms, are we missing something?

Taking in to account we will already have a table in the kitchen, here are the reasons we’ve come with up for each option

Reasons for a lounge dining room:

  • eating area is separate to cooking area (guests don’t see what is going on in the kitchen)
  • any dirty washing can be shut away while entertaining
  • can shut the kitchen door if the dishwasher is on, so the meal is quieter
  • have additional high surface away from cooking (useful for computers, important papers, board games etc)

Reasons to have a kitchen dining room:

  • kitchen becomes the major room of the house
  • lounge becomes a room for relaxing
  • don’t have to clear the table after the meal, can just shut the kitchen door and deal with the plates later
  • the cook is not shut away in the kitchen and can join in the discussions

It appears this is a fundamental question we have to answer before we can start working on our house, so I’m interested in your thoughts. Which do you have? How do you use it? What would you like if you had the choice? Do you have any other recommendations for me, such as what about a playroom?

 

 

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February 2013 review in pictures (Project 52)

It has taken a while, but I’ve finished my layouts for February. Unfortunately because of our house move and then getting a chest infection meant I completely ignored our photograph process and let them get out of control; they were on several cameras and on different computers. It took until the middle of March for me to get them in the same place. It is great to have captured some of the small parts of our house move such as the children playing in the cardboard boxes.

Layouts by Kate Davis Supplies from www.scrapgirls.com

Layouts by Kate Davis
Supplies from www.scrapgirls.com

Key events of February 2013:

  • The final Christmas present arrived (a giant mug)
  • We emptied the loft
  • The children enjoyed playing with the cardboard boxes
  • We moved house
  • There was lots of unpacking
  • Beth got her first princess dress
  • I built a maze from packing boxes

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Bank holiday weekend = 2 visits to eye casualty

Spring has finally happened in the UK and the forecast for the long weekend was sunny and warm, so we were all off to Dorset with my in-laws. Unfortunately our plans dramatically changed with me taking my husband to eye casualty twice instead.

During the week, ED developed swelling across the bridge of his nose which spread below his eyes and across his cheeks. When a fever developed he went to see the local doctor who almost sent him straight to hospital to go on an antibiotic drip. Instead he decided on strong oral antibiotics and a check up the following day, Friday. The swelling stopped spreading and the fever had disappeared, but the doctor was still not happy as the swelling was so close to the eyes and told ED to go to Eye Casualty department at the local hospital on Saturday for a consultant to assess whether any scans or further treatment were required.eye casualty

So change of plan. It would be no fun for two young children to be waiting at the hospital, particularly a four year old girl who was excited about going to the beach. Luckily for us, my mother in law offered to look after the children and tried out our Saturday routine while we went to the hospital.

After a two hour wait and a prescription for additional antibiotics we were on our way home; with the knowledge we had to return again the next morning. Kindly my mother in law offered to take the children with her to Dorset so we didn’t need to worry about them if ED’s temperature increased again and we had to rush to get him admitted to the ward. Fortunately that didn’t happen and the Sunday check up confirmed the antibiotics were working and no more check ups for five days.

So the weekend didn’t go as planned, but there have been positives, in addition to ED starting to get better:

  • We haven’t been woken at 6.30 by the children
  • We’ve cleaned the landing carpet (impossible with the children around)
  • We went for a gentle walk through the bluebells which are finally opening
  • We’ve been able to relax knowing the children are having a great time with their grandparents at the seaside

bluebells

I hope you enjoyed your weekend and it went more to plan than ours? Did you enjoy the weather?

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Inspired to start sewing again

I’ve been inspired by the BBC programme the Great British Sewing Bee, especially as it has combined with the rediscovery of my materials and patterns during our house move. They were packed up 4 years ago and put in the loft to make room for my daughter. Since then the most I’ve done with my sewing machine is make taggy blankets for my children, as well as for gifts.

My dressmaking skills developed in a very haphazard way. I wanted to make clothes from a young age because I wanted unique clothes that fitted, so I would go through my Mum’s patterns and sewing magazines and just start. I usually ended up going to my Mum for help (fortunately she was a good sewer and made many children’s clothes for my sister and me). She would solve my problem, but I didn’t always learn how to prevent the error; maybe it was a child’s attention thing. I remember making a pair of shorts at school when I was eleven and when I started work I attend an adult education class, where you made what you wanted and the teacher provided advice as you needed it. I made a simple but very useful skirt.

Thinking back over the items I’ve made I can think of some successes. This dress is one of them. Unfortunately this is the best picture I’ve found of it, all the others involve late night dancing (it is also unfortunate that I haven’t been able to fit into it since having children).

However, there are also several things that haven’t worked and I can now recognise three limitations:
  • I don’t have a basic understanding of dressmaking
  • I usually want to do things more advanced than my ability
  • I focus on the end result not the process ( I’m too slap dash and not careful enough)

I’m thinking of a gentle reintroduction, so I don’t take over the whole house with material, and allowing me to gradually develop my skills and confidence. However, I’ve got to work out how to fit this in with digital scrapbooking, working on the house, child care and of course my job. Maybe I’ll start by reviewing my stash and finding what projects I left unfinished four years ago.

What skills would you like to revisit? What are your tips for fitting in crafts and activities around the rest of life? Any suggestions how I implement my gentle reintroduction?

In case you haven’t found them and want some inspiration here are the websites of Tilly and Lauren from the Great British Sewing Bee.

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